July 26,2008 Happy 2 year anniversary

Hi Friends,
Well here we are two years later and Joe still has quality of life and we have had a really good two years. We have traveled, spent time with family and friends, sang and worshipped in our church in in Carillon, participated in two small groups each ( we are in a small group as a couple and then we each are in one for just women or men as the case may be). All these things plus your abundant prayers have sustained us on this journey and we feel strengthened to keep on going. Last weekend Joe and I were both down but then we sang in church on Sunday and that helped a lot. Monday, Joe called the doctor about his ascites and swelling in his feet and he had an ultrsound on Wednesday. Following that, they did a paracentesis (put a needle in his abdomen) and drained out two liters of fluid. They couldn't get it all but is was a big improvement. Then Thursday, he saw Dr. Schubert, his internist, and he put him on a mild diuretic for the swelling in his feet and it should also help with the ascites. He had chemo Thursday afternoon so he has had a busy week with doctors. Next week he will be off and he loves that. The weather has been absolutely gorgeous this week and we hve spent a lot of time just sitting on the deck talking and watching the golfer and the birds. The verse "Be still and know that I am God " comes to mind often when we are out there.
tonight we are going out to dinner to celebrate, The fishing trip is planned for two weeks from now and it looks like it is a go. Again, thanks for all your support. We didn't know this journey would be this long but we are so grateful to God for the time he has given us. God Bless Mary Anne

july 17,2008

Hi Friends,
Well things continue to move along. Joe played 18 holes of golf Tuesday and although he didn't score well he was happy to be out there. We also played 9 holes yesterday in the couples league. His bilirubin went back down to normal last week when he had his chemo so the onc thought it was elevated due to his urinary tract infection. He still has the fluid in his abdomen (ascites) and now has developed swollen feet and ankles. From what I read on the cc website the two chemo products he is on are working well for some of the patients. As long as it keeps the tumors from growing we will be happy. Joe continues to have his queasy stomach but not everyday and no pain so that is a blessing. He doesn't have much stamina and some days he does nothing but sleep. This jouney gets tedious at times but then someone calls or we get a card or spend time with friends, our spirits are lifted. Tonight we played bridge with Denny and Joanne for the first time in about 10 years and it was amazing how much Joe remembered and we actually did well. It was a change from hand and foot which we still love. We can't talk as much in bridge but it was a nice evening. We brought Lucky with us and he visited their dog Piper. They didn't play but they didn't fight either so that was good.
We sing together on the worship team this Sunday at church and that is always a good time. Our kids are busy going on vacations in the next week but we will squeeze in a BBQ on Saturday before some of them leave. Hope you are all enjoying the beautiful summer weather and the time to be with your families. Take care and God Bless. Mary Anne

July 9, 2008

Hi Friends,
We just got back from a ten day trip to Ohio and New Jersey. We spent the first few days in Ohio with our son Michael, Heidi and the kids. Got to watch them in a swim meet and it was great fun. We left our dog Lucky there and traveled to the Jersey shore to see our diving friends, Bob and Diane, and we had a great four days there. Well, 4th of July was a little exciting. Joe spliked a temp of 102.8 so we called the onc. on call and she had us go to the ER in case Joe was septic again. As it turns out, he has a urinary tract infection so got IV antibiotic in the Er and sent home with oral meds. Diane stayed with us through the whole thing which took about 4 hours ( not bad for a holiday in the ER) while Bob was at home cooking our meal which we never ate. Bob is a gourmet cook and he made lunches, appetizers and meals the whole time we were there with luscious desserts while we lounged around and sat on the deck and watched the ocean. We played cards,(hand and foot) afternoon and evening and we ended up guys 5 wins, girls 4 (at least in my recollection) That is better than we did in Bonaire by a long shot so we were happy. It was very relaxing and Joe is feeling much stronger but the antibiotics are messing with his stomach. He will get chemo tomorrow is all goes well. His bilirubin is climbing a little to 3.3 so we have to watch and see if the stent is working well. We had uneventful drives all the way along except everytime I took the wheel we had torrential downpours. Of course Joe couldn't sleep with me driving in that kind of weather but we had good times and good talks. God has been so good to us to give us all this time and we sure appreciate all of it. It appears this jouney is going to have crises along the way and we just have to go with the flow and take one day at a time. We are now almost two years into the diagnosis (July 26th) and he probably had it at least a year before that. He is still planning on a short fishing trip to Canada with our son, Michael and two grandsons in August. But for now we are home for a month enjoying the flowers and the nice weather and family and friends. God bless you all. Mary Anne